Tag Archive: goals

Are you a specialist or a dilettante?

By Richard X. Thripp at 2009-09-19T02:43:03Z in Personal Development, with these tags: discipline, goals, heart, life, truth, 11 Comments. 964 words.

In life you can choose to grow your skills horizontally or vertically. Vertical growth involves specializing in a field while ignoring others. Horizontal growth involves gaining cursory experience in a wide range of fields while remaining an amateur in them all.

We live in a society of hyper-specialization. Some astronomers study planets, others study gas giants. My college offers hundreds of majors for very specific subjects, and it gets even more specialized at the baccalaureate level. Man’s knowledge is so vast that it is a necessity to choose a narrow direction. Conversely, there are connections you will miss if you overlook …

Post to Twitter Post to Plurk Post to Delicious Post to Digg Post to Facebook Post to MySpace Post to Ping.fm Post to StumbleUpon

Practicality

By Richard X. Thripp at 2009-08-28T11:01:27Z in Personal Development, with these tags: efficiency, goals, life, objectivity, power, productivity, simplicity, truth, 5 Comments. 1,288 words.

Your success is tied directly to your merit. If your business is profitable with many customers, you’ve done good work. If your business hasn’t gotten off the ground and you’ve been working hard for a year, you’ve done bad work. If you are rich, you deserve wealth because you’ve provided services of value to your community. If you are poor, you got into your situation by providing no value, or never charging for it. If you provided value for free, it wasn’t useful. If it was, you would have received unsolicited donations.

If you are famous, you are an attractive, interesting …

Post to Twitter Post to Plurk Post to Delicious Post to Digg Post to Facebook Post to MySpace Post to Ping.fm Post to StumbleUpon

ShareThis   Printable Version      
More stuff:   none.  

Egregious Failures

By Richard X. Thripp at 2009-08-25T16:22:04Z in Personal Development, with these tags: evil, failure, goals, good, heart, life, metaphysical, objectivity, power, reflection, truth, 6 Comments. 3,873 words.

2009-12-20 Update: Don’t be a jerk toward others and take this article with a grain of salt as it has a lot of negativity in it.

It sucks when you fail hard. That sentence will get a lot of search traffic, right?

I had you all set up for an awesome article before I typed that opening. Seeing the unusual title, you expected me to share one of my massive failures in the first paragraph. Instead, you got a joke that is annoying rather than funny. The sad part is it probably will get search traffic.

50% of you are hovering over the …

Post to Twitter Post to Plurk Post to Delicious Post to Digg Post to Facebook Post to MySpace Post to Ping.fm Post to StumbleUpon

Doing Nothing

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-11-28T01:50:03Z in Personal Development, with these tags: courage, discipline, goals, jobs, life, productivity, thoughts, 5 Comments. 782 words.

I didn’t get anything done today. I was going to write an article about focal length on camera lenses, but I ended up spending five hours reading about it on dpreview.com, Wikipedia, this great explanation of f-stops, etc. It was interesting, and I learned quite a bit, but I still didn’t write anything. Writing about photography doesn’t feel like writing about personal development, because it seems like I can write whatever I want with the latter. With photography, I spend more time researching and worrying about technical details than writing. General ideas are more important. Really specific articles are …

Post to Twitter Post to Plurk Post to Delicious Post to Digg Post to Facebook Post to MySpace Post to Ping.fm Post to StumbleUpon

ShareThis   Printable Version      
More stuff:   none.  

Personal Development is for Smart People

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-10-31T02:33:24Z in Personal Development, with these tags: courage, fear, goals, life, love, power, relationships, truth, 6 Comments. 1,972 words.

The biggest challenge in personal development is not creating systems—it’s using them. You can know perfectly well that you need to quit your job, change religions, stop eating animals, and move to Mexico, but unless you take action, you’ll never get anywhere. In fact, as you dilly-dally, a whiny voice in your head takes over, telling you to remain complacent. You think that’s the only voice that will talk to you, so you become friends with that voice out of desperation. But it turns out that if you deny friendship with that voice, a far better, intially quieter voice …

Post to Twitter Post to Plurk Post to Delicious Post to Digg Post to Facebook Post to MySpace Post to Ping.fm Post to StumbleUpon

Prove Me Wrong

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-10-07T17:34:41Z in Personal Development, with these tags: approval, courage, fear, goals, happiness, life, people, power, society, 0 Comments. 1,017 words.

One simple way to get motivated is to have someone else tell you you’ll fail.

Then, you’ll work really hard to do prove that person wrong.

This can be quite effective. Some people build their whole life around it, because it’s such a powerful source of motivation.

One common story you hear among hospital patients is this: “The doctor said I’d never walk again. Look at me now! I sure proved him wrong.”

I think there’s a doctor doing this as his full-time job. He drives between hospitals, goes to each patient’s room, and tells the patient he’ll never walk again. Even if the …

Post to Twitter Post to Plurk Post to Delicious Post to Digg Post to Facebook Post to MySpace Post to Ping.fm Post to StumbleUpon

Dumb People, Smart People, and Smarter People

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-10-02T23:10:17Z in Personal Development, with these tags: fun, goals, humor, life, lists, people, power, smart, truth, 35 Comments. 473 words.

2009-12-20 Update: I revoke this article because it is negative and condescending. Read it anyway if you want.

Dumb people ignore the rules.
Smart people follow the rules.
Smarter people make the rules.

Dumb people live below their potential.
Smart people live up to their potential.
Smarter people live beyond their potential.

Dumb people can’t focus.
Smart people multi-task.
Smarter people obsess.

Dumb people eat meat.
Smart people never eat meat.
Smarter people eat meat when they’re starving to death.

Dumb people don’t go to college.
Smart people go to college.
Smarter people think college is a joke.

Dumb people become lazy and fat.
Smart people stay fit by going to the gym.
Smarter people don’t pay others …

Post to Twitter Post to Plurk Post to Delicious Post to Digg Post to Facebook Post to MySpace Post to Ping.fm Post to StumbleUpon

First Google AdSense check

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-09-29T20:25:49Z in Personal Development, with these tags: careers, goals, internet, jobs, life, money, purpose, value, work, 2 Comments. 519 words.

$112.23 Google AdSense check

Just got this check from Google for $112.23. I wasn’t sure if this Google ad program was real till now; perhaps they’d just take my money and ban me when I reached the $100 threshold? :xx:

I started this blog way back at the end of last year, just for my photography. I didn’t do much for a long time, often just spending lots of time fiddling with the layout and code, but in the past two months I’ve made lots of progress. I feel I can do a lot of good here, …

Post to Twitter Post to Plurk Post to Delicious Post to Digg Post to Facebook Post to MySpace Post to Ping.fm Post to StumbleUpon

Personal Development for Photographers

Personal development is universal, so it includes photographers. A lot of photographers are stuck in a lot of ways. They take too many photos, entangle their intuition with technicalities, refuse to rise above spectatorship, or abandon their creativity for the comfort of rigid rules. I did all these for some time, so I want to help others rise above these limitations.

Too many photos

Most photographers live with a scarcity mindset. This means they believe they must be taking photos every moment, in case they miss the ‘perfect’ moment. There is only one ‘perfect’ moment (scarcity), so it’s important not to miss …

Post to Twitter Post to Plurk Post to Delicious Post to Digg Post to Facebook Post to MySpace Post to Ping.fm Post to StumbleUpon

Transcending Limiting Beliefs

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-09-20T16:12:23Z in Personal Development, with these tags: beliefs, consciousness, courage, fear, goals, heart, life, limits, mind, money, politicking, purpose, 13 Comments. 4,605 words.

It’s a very scary thing when someone openly disproves your limiting beliefs. If you have empowering beliefs, being disproven is a triumph rather than an attack, because you’ve been given the easy opportunity to fine-tune your belief system, which can only lead to improving your self and your model of the world. But if your mind is holding you back, you’re highly afraid of breaking the chains. The three major reasons for this are:

1. If you’re disproven now, whose to say that you won’t be disproven again? If you switch from Catholicism to Protestantism, couldn’t what you really want be …

Post to Twitter Post to Plurk Post to Delicious Post to Digg Post to Facebook Post to MySpace Post to Ping.fm Post to StumbleUpon


Page 1 of 3123