Tag Archive: growth

Reframing Negativity

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-11-10T22:20:14Z in Personal Development, with these tags: courage, emotion, fear, growth, positivity, thoughts, 0 Comments. 1,929 words.

At the college, we have a ritual each semester where we have to evaluate our professors. Student feedback, or so it’s called.

There are 14 categories, including things like “gives examples,” “answers questions,” and “is fair.” You can rate 1 to 5 on each.

This seems like a negative thing, because you have to rate your professor’s performance objectively. You have to decide how he’s done, evaluate him in many categories, and then write suggestions (most people don’t do this). It’s a big responsibility, because college administrators will be judging his merits, worthiness, and teaching ability based on your report.

But in my …

The Perks of Having a Job

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-09-13T18:09:58Z in Personal Development, with these tags: courage, goals, growth, heart, jobs, life, money, work, 0 Comments. 1,925 words.

I know a lot of people like to tear down gainful employment in general, but there really are some good benefits to be had.

1. Guaranteed payment for your work.

If you own a restaurant, and it’s losing money, can you get out of paying your employees? No—you still must pay them for the work they’ve done. While you can let them go, you can’t refuse to pay for the work they’ve already done, even if you’re going into debt yourself. In this relationship, employees are in a much safer position.

2. Trading time for money.

In a job, it doesn’t matter if you …

Your Blog is a Marching Wiki

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-09-04T20:16:06Z in Personal Development, with these tags: blogging, congruity, goals, growth, internet, life, links, wikis, writing, 0 Comments. 1,163 words.

When I think of a wiki, I think of a collection of articles that can be edited by anyone. But wikis have another core trait. If you’ve ever looked up an article on Wikipedia, you’ve noticed that practically every other word is a link to related articles in the wiki.

There are no direct links to external sites. All those are footnotes or references, appearing at the bottom of the page. But within the text, there are internal links all over the place. It’s a self-contained Internet.

I think your blog should be the same way. This isn’t reasonable …

Why Abortion is Wrong Even if it’s Right

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-08-30T09:38:58Z in Personal Development, with these tags: abortion, challenges, children, death, ethics, goals, growth, humor, life, teenagers, 4 Comments. 1,644 words.

I’m going down a hypothetical path where abortion is ethical and just, despite knowing it isn’t. I will prove that even if my knowledge is false and abortion is ethical, one who goes down that “ethical” path reaches a dead end, the end result for which is tenfold worse than believing abortion is unethical. Finally, with plain-old logic, I’ll prove that abortion is the wrong choice either way.

Definitions

First, let’s make the definition of “fetus” really clear. The American Heritage Stedman’s Medical Dictionary defines it as this:

“In humans, the unborn young from the end of the eighth week after conception to

My Life of Crime: Lessons from the Rebate Game

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-08-29T05:22:33Z in Personal Development, with these tags: cameras, computers, courage, crime, fun, games, goals, growth, life, materialism, money, purpose, time, 4 Comments. 11,791 words.

This is the story of how I gamed the rebate, price-match, and coupon systems of common office and grocery stores to acquire over $25,000 in free merchandise over a period of three years. I haven’t found anyone who has done quite what I’ve done. A lot of it is unethical. I believe none of it is legally actionable, but it was exciting and I gained a lot of nice possessions. “Legal shoplifting,” if you will.

Nervous Early Days

When I started out in the rebate game, around June 2005, I thought claiming a legitimate rebate on a product was a good deal. …

Conquering Big Problems: An Introduction

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-08-14T06:06:11Z in Personal Development, with these tags: cancer, challenges, conquering big problems, goals, growth, life, 1 Comment. 2,114 words.

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I don’t hate problems. Problems are challenges, and all challenges are an opportunity for growth. Big problems are an opportunity for big growth. But a problem that has only grown through negligence yields little growth.

A small hole in your roof is a small problem. Sure, the occasional bug will come in, but it isn’t any risk to your shelter. If it’s hot out, turn up the air conditioner. If it’s cold, put some more logs on the fire. If it rains, put a bucket under it.

Perhaps you grow tired of these kludges. Every month you’re paying more on your electric …

The Library on Hold

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-08-07T23:10:56Z in Other, with these tags: fear, growth, librarianship, life, the thripp public library, 2 Comments. 282 words.

If you follow my Twitter, you know I’ve been consumed with coding the OPAC for my public library these past seven days. Also, I pissed off greatly angered my Dad recently. I’m constantly negative / patronizing around him. It’s like a subconscious force. So much for trying to be personally developed.

The library is looking really great now; check out this search for example. I’m putting it on hold starting right now. I won’t work any more on it for one month. Hold me to that promise, okay?

The problem with it is that it’s not the …

Disparate Value

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-07-31T16:44:35Z in Personal Development, with these tags: growth, productivity, skill, talent, value, work, 1 Comment. 1,092 words.

If I could just get my cat to wash the dishes and mop the floor, I’d have a cat worth millions of dollars. It doesn’t matter that you can hire someone to do the work for several dollars an hour. If the cat did it, it would be special and worth far more. Any sort of animal, for that matter.

Does that mean that the cat’s work is intrinsically more valuable than mine? Not in the slightest. In fact, it’s not as safe to have the cat do housework. Cats aren’t skillful homemakers. My cat has no proven track record, …

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A Series of Near-Hits

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-07-28T15:54:33Z in Personal Development, with these tags: goals, growth, lightning, mathematics, productivity, 0 Comments. 994 words.

In life, it’s easy to go through a process called a series of near-hits, where you get close to the mark many times in a row without ever succeeding. An invisible wall stops you from reaching the goal, but you expend an increasing amount of effort for ever-reducing gains.

Sometimes, this is the story of a person’s whole life: a series of failures which were almost successes. “Failure,” of course, is a relative term. Perhaps he succeeded in supporting his family, but failed as a businessman. Perhaps he was a successful businessman who ignored his family. For my purposes, the shortcoming …

Intrinsic vs. Extrinsic Value

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-07-18T17:06:20Z in Personal Development, with these tags: courage, fear, focus, freedom, goals, growth, investment, jobs, life, purpose, value, 1 Comment. 2,669 words.

Something that is valuable without strings attached has intrinsic value. I find intrinsic value is far more reliable than extrinsic value, because it’s self-reliant, independent, and free of the influence of others. The opposite of intrinsic value is extrinsic value. I like “extrinsic” as a word, but don’t see it used much. What it means is the value is assigned to the item by external forces. The item is worthless on its own. Or perhaps it has a mix of intrinsic and extrinsic value, so it is simply less valuable.

One thing that’s hard to accept about intrinsic vs. extrinsic value …


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