Archive: 2008 August 14

Talking to Rocks

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-08-14T22:50:34Z in Personal Development, with these tags: brevity, conversations, people, power, rocks, time, 1 Comment. 762 words.

I’ve found a powerful and time-saving technique for responding to long-winded critiques and challenges from others.

Give a short answer.

Not because a short answer is better, but because there’s no need for a long answer. A lengthy, elegant, point-by-point essay can be interesting, but it’s just more of the same because you’re engaging the criticism. That’s boring and expected. You give me any argument, and I can come up with a logical, point-by-point answer why it’s wrong. But when you fail to attempt this at all, you cut like a knife through your opponent’s inquiries. Basically, you’re saying, “your points are …

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College is for Dummies

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-08-14T06:43:32Z in Personal Development, with these tags: college, goals, money, myths, 4 Comments. 710 words.

A college education is thought to be a requirement for success in modern America. We swallow, hook, line, and sinker, that higher education is an unassailable good. But what if it isn’t?

• Revisionist history. You get to learn that our founding fathers were unchristian, that the American Indians were peaceful savages, and that the Earth would be better off without humans. Then you’re tested on this, and you’ll “fail” if you don’t give the right answers.

You got enough of this in high school; do you have to subject yourself to four more years of it?

• All the great entrepreneurs skipped …

Conquering Big Problems: An Introduction

By Richard X. Thripp at 2008-08-14T06:06:11Z in Personal Development, with these tags: cancer, challenges, conquering big problems, goals, growth, life, 1 Comment. 2,114 words.

I don’t hate problems. Problems are challenges, and all challenges are an opportunity for growth. Big problems are an opportunity for big growth. But a problem that has only grown through negligence yields little growth.

A small hole in your roof is a small problem. Sure, the occasional bug will come in, but it isn’t any risk to your shelter. If it’s hot out, turn up the air conditioner. If it’s cold, put some more logs on the fire. If it rains, put a bucket under it.

Perhaps you grow tired of these kludges. Every month you’re paying more on your electric …